You are sat at home just passing the time. The tick of the clock rings in your ear as it counts down the minutes until it’s time to go out and meet some hot, sexy women.
Normally you look forward to going out. You wanna go and meet some hot women, even if it gives you that horrible pit-of-the-stomach sick feeling. You, like everyone else, get the same feeling and you should definitely check out our ‘Embrace The Fear’ article if you want know why this feeling is actually essential for success.
But today you’re not feeling great. Maybe you had a shit day at work or something during the day hasn’t gone the way you planned. You are thinking that maybe it would be better to give tonight a miss.
Problem is, you know you will feel even worse if you do that. At the same time you’re thinking if you go out, and are feeling crap, then you will most likely have a bad night. You will probably end up drowning your woes away with alcohol and just end up having a drunken laugh with your mates.
This certainly isn’t the worst thing in the world as it will make you feel better, at least in the short-term. But it may well lead to you having a bad night when it comes to meeting women. A ‘few too many’ can lead to a lack of ability to meet and attract women.
If, like me, you don’t often drink, you might find you go out and have a crappy night. If you don’t drink, then your mindset needs to be controlled by yourself. This is a big change from the Going out in a bad mood makes it very hard to have a good night. If you are not having a good night then you will struggle to meet girls because they will pick up on this fact.
So, if you are going out tonight for the purpose of meeting and attracting a hot bird, then you really need to know how to get yourself into a good mood. This way you will feel better about yourself and this will definitely improve your chances of being successful with women.
Here are a few things that you can do to get yourself into a good mood before going out:
Watch YouTube Videos
I have a few hundred YouTube videos I can watch to get me into a good mood. Some are funny, some are inspirational, some are unbelievable and others are just plain awesome. Whichever one I watch, I know I will be in a better mood for watching. So much so in fact I am currently working on a post that will have my top favorite videos. Make sure you keep an eye out for that so you can see my recommendations.
Get Some Exercise
The major thing that exercise does in order to make us feel good is release chemicals that make you feel good. These chemicals will raise your mood and you will feel much better for it. I also love the fact that I am working towards something that will make me look better and healthier. How can this fail to put you in a good mood?… it can’t 🙂
Watch Comedy
I personally love comedy. Currently Micheal McIntyre is my favorite comedian. “I think you’ll find pal, that’s legal tender”… fucking hilarious. As with exercise, laughing causes the body to release chemicals that make you feel good. Another great thing about watching a lot of comedy is it gives you great material to use when meeting women. You can use jokes you have heard to make women laugh. If you can make women laugh then you are definitely on the right path.
Do Something You Love
You must have something that you really love to do. Everybody does. Me personally, I like going out on my motorbike for a long ride along some nice country roads. Well, apart from when a taxi pulls out in front of me and I fall and break my collar bone :-(. Not to worry though, you live and learn. The point is that doing something you love will definitely put you into a great mood.
Final Thought
If you are in a bad mood, then it’s still better to go out and try and meet women even if it will make it slightly harder. However, better still, if you can learn how to get yourself into a great mood then you will put yourself in a better position when it comes to meeting and attracting women.
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