They aren’t genuinely sorry!

“I am sorry I said you don’t deserve a writing job due to poor writing skills”, my father said.

It’s rare when my father apologizes to anyone with whom he did wrong. When he does, it doesn’t take more than a warning shot. He never admits that he made a mistake. However, according to the book Forgive Me for My Sins, it’s the worst kind of habit.

My father is a narcissist who manipulates everyone to do what he wishes. He is self-centered and has no self-awareness. There is also an irritating lack of empathy. What was the reason for his apology? Was I really a good writer? No, he asked forgiveness because he wanted me to continue work as he had no other option. He intended that it would melt my heart if he apologized, and I would ready to do what he wants.

According to the book Forgive Me for My Sins, narcissists apologize non verbally. They pretend as they are really sorry, but that isn’t a genuine one. So, what makes a strong and actual apology? Wrongdoers must accept their mistake, fee guilt, and promise to not do it again.

But as per the book Forgive Me for My Sins, a narcissist’s apology is free from its true definition.

Comfortable liars

It’s a fake apology if it’s coming from a narcissist. They never accept their mistake, and even they don’t discuss that. They are comfortable liars, especially when they try to make another person fool emotionally.

If you are also facing a narcissist who follows the same practice, you should recommend the book Forgive Me for My Sins. It will guide the individual to a straight path.

Same way of asking forgiveness

Narcissists are fake, love to create drama, and blackmail others emotionally to make others do what they want. My father does that. He asks forgiveness by using the same way as he used with other people. He always has the same trick to control other’s emotions.

According to the book Forgive Me for My Sins, narcissists have to figure out how they performed in front of the person they asked for forgiveness. They try to compassionate while apologizing.

An apology with zero influence

According to the book Forgive Me for My Sins, actions matters rather than words, especially while apologizing. People say a lot that they won’t repeat the same mistake but fail. But you can’t say that they are narcissist if the wrongdoer tries to improve and accept the mistake.

According to Forgive Me for My Sins, narcissists are excellent manipulators. Asking forgiveness is so easy for them due to fake intentions with a specific purpose behind this. There is no guarantee of apology. It can be remorseful or genuine. It would be best if you left everything on time as it is the best teacher that let you understand things. But you have to be optimistic. Remember, sincere people will always be sincere; they don’t need to prove it because showing integrity is a part of their habit that never change.

Conclusion!

There is no reality and honesty in narcissists as they are selfish. They use people for their benefits and purposes. They play with others emotions. They ask for fake forgiveness as it is easy for them.