Diamond In The Rough PUAs

I’ve been spending a considerable amount of time away from the game lately, and I couldn’t help but notice how many women have come-on to me. There was a girl that barely knew me that said she wanted to marry me (and is very serious about it), there were a few girls that said that I looked like a model, and then there were a few girls who couldn’t stop staring at me.

And I was just out this past weekend, sitting down minding my own business, when a girl started dancing towards me, called me hot, and tried to kiss me (I turned my head away). Keep in mind that this girl was going to be getting married the very next day. Something like this just isn’t surprising at all for me, as similar situations occur on a regular basis when I’m out.

While sitting around thinking about all of this. And looking at some of my PUA/player buddies, I began to realize that a lot of them undervalue themselves. As a result, they never embrace that they are top-tier men, and instead, they act nervous and/or over-excited around women, and they keep searching for conversational pieces and slick moves to make women like them.

Fact of the matter is that they don’t need any of that. One of the things that I’ve realized lately, is that I can pretty much go out and get a date very quickly (same day). It seriously isn’t any work at all for me. Why not? Because I am one of the top-tier men. And I think that a lot of PUAs fail to see that they are too (about 1/3rd of PUAs, I’d say). These are the PUAs that really do go the extra mile; the PUAs that put in the effort to be in shape, maintain good-looking faces, and/or are tall.

So why are these diamonds in the rough PUAs having trouble attracting women? I already explained one reason: nightclubs. As I’ve explained before, nightclubs aren’t a good measure of your true attractiveness, as women will reject even the pretty boys if they are presented with too many options. Over time, this hurts the self-esteem of these diamond in the rough PUAs, causing them to severely undervalue their level of physical attractiveness.

The second reason why such PUAs undervalue themselves, is because the PUA world operates on groupthink. If you begin to hang around and associate with guys who need severe help with women, you begin to think like one. A guy that is attractive and simply needs a little bit of confidence, soon begins to think all kinds of things are wrong with him. I see this time and time again; a pretty boy, tall guy, or buff guy behaving as if he is some kind of bottom of the barrel guy.

The biggest reason why I believe about 1/3rd of PUAs severely undervalue themselves is because they continually place themselves under a microscope. For example, when I go out, I know I’m better looking than most of the men around me, and would even go as far as to say that in many instances, I am the best-looking guy. However, it took me years to actually start behaving like I was.

Why was that? Because I kept comparing myself in the most ridiculous ways. For example, I told you guys that I was a 7. However, what I never considered, was the fact that if you are a guy that is smiling and acting all goofy in your pictures, your rating will be lowered on a website like Hot or Not. Not smiling, I’d probably go up to an 8. Upload a professional photo with a decent camera, and that rating goes up to a 9 or 10. Not to mention that on TV and on the internet, height doesn’t really factor in. That and I always compared myself to top-tier athletes, which is just stupid, seeing that these guys are incredibly rare.

But what can you do about this if you think you might be one of these diamond in the rough PUAs that severely undervalues himself? Take a step back, and let women in real life speak for you. Seriously, go out, preferrably anywhere that isn’t a nightclub, and just keep your mouth shut. Pay women no attention, and just pay attention to how they react towards you. If you’re noticing that women are constantly staring at you, approaching you, and calling you hot, then what that tells me, is that you need to change your whole approach to women. You have the upper-hand and don’t even realize it.

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