I received a reader mail about what to do about an ex wife seeing that I‘ve been in the same boat at one point in time. I was asked not to post it, but I think this knowledge is useful to all of you. I’m not going to post any details that give away who he or his wife might be, but here is the gist of it:
Paragraph 1:He contacts his ex-wife, wanting to get back together. She finally contacts him a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong period of time later.
Paragraph 2: She baits him by trying to make him feel bad.
Paragraph 3: She tests to see if he really does want to be with her.
Paragraph 4: He says he doesn’t know what to do, and guesses that she wants him back, which she obviously does.
Paragraph 5: He’s afraid that he’ll lose the only woman that he’s ever loved.
Now, it’s time for my response. She didn’t contact you for a long time because she was busy fucking or pursuing someone else. Now that the other person has finally shit on her, or proved to not be the person she thought they were, she wants you back. In other words, you are the back-up plan.
Right now, she’s testing to see if you still want to be with her, and she’s doing so in a way that she can save face should you not want her. Once she realizes that you still want her, she will admit that she wants to get back with you. And she is also trying to get you to take all of the blame for the marriage so she doesn’t feel bad, and so that she can use it against you in the future. And you’re already playing along, and taking all of the blame; clear beta male behavior.
You know that she wants you, and you will eventually end up back with her after a little game playing and lying to yourself. Like all men, you are inherently stupid when it comes to women and reality, and will take her back under the guise of some illogical excuse, such as “she’s my soul mate”, “she’s changed”, or “I have to give it another chance.”; all the while knowing that behavior is cyclical. All men do this. Why? Because all men are idiots and victims of the pussy.
And look at you; already setting up your excuse as to why you are taking her back. There’s nothing I can say to you to change your mind. Go ahead and get burned again. All men do it. If you were smart, then you’d never get romantically involved with her again, but then again, you are a man, so I don’t expect you to heed my warning. Nothing against you, but I’m calling it as I see it. i’ve seen guys make this mistake all too any times.
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