Top Five Dating Bar Tactics

I’ve been going out for years, and have hundreds and hundreds of stories to back up about half of my nights out. I’ve tried just about EVERY SEDUCTION TECHNIQUE out there at one time or another, so I thought you’d guys would be interested in what I thought were the most useful techniques that you could possibly use to pick up mature women in a bar. I’ve compiled a list of the top five bar techniques that you should be using to get laid.

How did I compile this list? I based everything on what has gotten me the most consistent results, big gains, and had the most mature women like putty in the palm of my hands. These techniques aren’t here because I favor one over the other. They are here for one reason and one reason only: because they get results:

#1 Upgrading Your Appearances For Maximum Effect

Ironically the most downplayed technique in the seduction community happens to be what I think to be the most effective. Before any of you get your panties up in a ruffle, I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: with a makeover, any guy can turn himself into a physically attractive guy. This would be the first thing I would change about myself if I was an average frustrated chump. Go out, get a highly stylized wardrobe, maintain your body so that you aren’t repulsive (you don’t have to look like an athlete), and groom yourself excessively. It will pay very high dividends.

It seems as though every time I upgraded my wardrobe and appearances, I had more and more mature women hitting on me, and things just seemed so much easier. I know that I can walk into an average looking guy’s set, and easily take his girl from him simply because I am lightyears ahead of him when it comes to appearances. I know that I said I get approached about once every one or two times I’m out, but I also want to note that there have been nights that I’ve been approached by up to five different mature women. Mature women just give guys who look better an easier time.

#2 Get A Wingman That Most Mature women Will Find Sexually Appealing

I cannot stress this one enough. The nights when I have a wingman that mature women find sexually appealing and nights when I’m with a wingman that looks like a garbage can is like night and day. Taking mature women is home is so much fucking easier when her friend finds your friend to be sexually appealing. Once you start doing this, you’re going to be asking yourself why you didn’t go out and do this before. Repulsive wingmen are what are holding most of you back from pulling one night stands.

#3 Aloof “Keep Away” Game

This one ranks very high simply because mature women want what they have to work for. Although it is only effective once you are locked in with a girl, once she is a part of your group, being aloof, indifferent, and not giving her what she wants will drive her crazy with attraction towards you. Most men immediately chase after mature women and give them whatever they want, but when you don’t chase and don’t give them information, don’t let them touch you, and don’t look at them while they’re talking, they desire you like a crack fiend desires it’s next hit.

#4 Disqualifying Yourself

This is one of those ones that slips under the radar, but disqualifying yourself only makes mature women want you even more. I can’t even count all of the times that I’ve flat out told mature women that I’m an asshole, a bad guy, or a guy that she wouldn’t want to date, only to have her all over me, telling me that she doesn’t care, telling me that she loves assholes, and jumping my bone. This one doesn’t get the recognition that it deserves.

#5 Stupid Dances

This is another one that doesn’t get any mention in the seduction community, but I know, as well as every guy that I’ve told to do this knows, this is absolutely perfect for commanding attention, displaying your confidence, showing that you are easy going, a very fun guy, and it just makes mature women absolutely erupt in laughter and admire you. I don’t know a single move that really gets a crowd going like dancing like one of those idiots doing retarded dances in your favorite movies. Mature women absolutely love these.

What Didn’t Make The List?

You’ll notice that I left out confidence. Why? Because that is something that comes with experience and is a BASELINE quality that mature women EXPECT all men to have. I also left out being direct. Why? Because if you’re experienced enough, you don’t need to be direct, as you can already tell if a woman is into you or not. It’s good, but it’s not a top 5 technique. Another one that didn’t make the list that you’d expect to, is the spin kiss. It’s good for getting a kiss, but doesn’t really go anywhere after that.

What Are The Most Useless?

I’m going to start this one off with one that I initially thought was good, but turned out to be a big waste of time and resources. What is it? V.I.P., bottle service, and kissing the bar staffs ass. This is only good when you’re bringing YOUR OWN mature women that you’ve already picked up on a different night, but won’t help you much with new mature women who aren’t locked in with you from a previous event. When you bring those girls into the bar with you, skipping the line, THEN you look like the man. However, when you meet girls in the bar, all you really have going for you, is your bottle, which really does nothing for sexual attraction. All it does is attract gold diggers who want to use you.

Another one that is really useless, is using routines as a whole. They do nothing but make you feel secure. A guy who puts all of that work into routines has no better chance of pulling a woman than a guy that knows how to hold a decent conversation. In other words, yeah, routines can carry a conversation, but you’d do just as well by learning to how to talk to people in general. Routines are not something that are going to make mature women like you; hence, why flake rates are so high. Routines have to be the biggest, most oversold, and overhyped technique used to pull mature women out there. If anything, I’d say the only real routines worth their weight, are the routines that transition mature women from one place to another.

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