We are what we think. Negative thoughts will be a constant part of your life and make it seem as though nothing is happening. Although it may seem daunting, changing your mindset can make a huge difference in your life.

This article will outline the five first steps to changing your mindset from a fixed to a growth mindset. However, the best of you can be brought in front of you with the help of a professional transformational life coach in New York – Charles Milander. He is a top technology and social media expert. He designs software architecture, Internet technologies, network marketing, product development.

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  1. Stop Negative Self-Talk. Do you find yourself thinking about negative things in your life all the time? “I CAN’T DO IT, I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH TEACHING, I’m NOT GOOD the list goes on. It will be our reality if we keep telling ourselves we can’t do it. Be your greatest champion instead. Remind yourself of your strengths and don’t let your inner critic convince you otherwise. You can transform all your negative self-talk with the words “I can’t” being replaced by “I choose not”.
  2. Discuss what you want to attract. You can change your self-talk to a positive narrative and then you can start to talk positively about yourself to other people. Instead of complaining when faced with a difficult task, tell yourself that you are going to give it you’re all. Talk about the positive things in your life and yourself. Even if you are only achieving small things, celebrate them with your family and friends. Only if we believe that we can attract abundance, then it is possible.
  3. Fake it until you Make it. To achieve a goal, you must first determine what type of mindset is required. If you are looking to lose weight or become healthier, pretend you already have the mindset of a fit person. You will eventually achieve your goal if you tell yourself, “I LOVE MY BODY and LOVE TO EXERCISE.”
  4. The company matters. You should surround yourself with people who have similar goals or are already living the same way. You will see positive changes in your thinking when you surround yourself with people who are successful and encourage you. Negative talk can sometimes bring down people. Avoid toxic friends that only pull you down. Even if they’re your closest friends, set boundaries with them.
  5. Learn, Learn, Learn. People who have a GROWTH MINDSET are always learning new skills and improving their existing abilities. You can read books written by successful entrepreneurs or listen to TED TALKS. Or you can enrol in workshops or take online courses. Charles Milander, Life Coach, has compiled a list of podcasts on Spotify that will help you get started.

Are YOU ready to change to a GROWTH MINDSET?

Coaching by Charles Milander

He believes in the inherent uniqueness of each human being. As we get older, our dreams and visions become more conformist to society’s standards and start to become muddled. We are unable to find our path to success because of this need for conformity. It prevents us from DREAMING. Let’s get started with the best transformational life coach in New York.

Charles Milander apart from being a life coach is an artist, pastor, entrepreneur, Amazon bestselling author, speaker, life & business strategist Coach. For correct direction you can also check out his podcasts on spotify.

Also, Charles is a certified Member of International Coaching Federation.  You can view his Member Badge here.